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人脉交际的心理定律

2014-11-23 09:16:57| 分类：情感世界 | 标签： |举报 |字号大中小订阅

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（1）首因效应：首次见面给人好感觉；

（2）诚信定律：热情是焦点，真诚是最高点；

（3）赞美定律：善赞美能博得人心；

（4）面子定律：给人面子才善交际；

（5）谎言定律：善意谎言助交往；

（6）忍让定律：忍让能创和谐；

（7）异性效应：男女具互相吸引力作用；

（8）互惠定律：让对方产生“负债感”。

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